--- date: - 2025-10-30 created: 2025-12-03T00:00:00 category: - "[[Journal]]" type: - "[[Reflection]]" topic: - "[[Nicola Hodgetts|Nik]]" title: Nik's Birthday reflection --- ## What I remember today on the [[2025-12-03]] I wanted to make the effort and go to see [[Nicola Hodgetts|Nik]]. It's not been that long since [[Albert Hodgetts|Grandad]] has passed, these times can hit hard, and I wasn't going to assume that my [[Robert Mark Hodgetts|Dad]] would make the effort (he hadn't, at least not at the point when I left later in the afternoon). She was on a video call with [[Julie|Julie]] when I arrived. After that we sat on the sofa and talked for a few hours. It was good